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“Not your average book; very insightful and thought-provoking. If you’re a dude, give it a try: a much different perspective on things that make a lot of sense.” Wilfrid N., Civil Servant

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“A friend who read an early draft of this book asked if she could share it with a male friend for feedback. When he asked what it was about, she said, ‘Reimagining the patriarchy.’ His response? ‘I need that. I don't know where to begin!’”





Other Books

I love to write. I am the author of six fiction and non-fiction books. I also blogged for Huffpost for 10 years on the arts, culture, lifestyle, politics, and business until they shut down their blogger platform. My published books are listed below.

Please note that you can also rate and review my books at Goodreads and on Amazon.com!

Saturday Comes – A Novel of Love and Vodou


An atmospheric novel of love and hate; of Haiti’s long-smoldering societal and class conflicts, the magic that reigns over the everyday lives of Haitian natives, and the unseen forces that draw human beings together.



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Sex, Cheese and French Fries: Women are Perfect, Men are from France


A humorous look at the challenges of cross-cultural relationships, using an American woman and an unruly Frenchman as premise. Just because I’m married to an irreverent Frenchman doesn’t mean this is based on us. I swear it!



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MEHNDI: The Art of Henna Body Painting


Published by Random House, Mehndi: The Art of Henna Body Painting was the first published book on henna body art in the U.S. It features history on the art form, traditional uses of the henna plant, self-instruction exercises, a recipe for creating a home-made henna paste, tips from professional henna artists, and tons of photographs.



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Ceremonies for Real Life


Published by Wildcat Canyon Press, Ceremonies for Real Life is a practical, non-religious, non-traditional guide for creating modern ceremonies and rituals to celebrate or mark important events, like special birthdays and anniversaries, a new home or new baby, graduation, menopause, and lots more.



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Short Stories About Us


This collection combines 10 short stories about relationships—mostly between men and women—and 11 opinion pieces that speak to issues raised in the fictional tales. Besides being available as a single book in print and digital editions, the stories may also be purchased individually and downloaded in PDF format (readable on computer or tablet).       



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Jagua: A Journey into Body Art from the Amazon


In this book (chock full of gorgeous photos!), I take readers on a journey into the deepest realms of the Amazon jungle, where a prized tattoo ink weaves magical tales into the heart and culture of the region’s indigenous people.



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